FELLAS. WE CAN DO BETTER. THIS IS NOT AUSTRALIA. LET'S PROVE IT.

Stories from Australian men, for Australian men... about the small stuff, the big stuff, and about what's just not cool anymore. One man at a time.

Right now, in Australia

It's not slowing down

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Men telling men

Short, unscripted. A mate, a father, a son, a bystander...talking about the moment they realised, and what they did next.

The pledge

Small, specific, real

Not a badge for your profile picture. 6 things you can actually do, starting this week.

  • I'll say something when a mate's "joke" isn't one.

    Even when it's awkward. Especially then.
  • I'll check in on a mate I'm worried about.

    Not a group chat. A real conversation.
  • I'll talk to the young men in my life about respect.

    Sons, nephews, teammates, apprentices.
  • I'll learn the signs, not just the headlines.

    Coercive control rarely looks like a bruise.
  • I'll back a mate who leaves, not just one who stays.

    Leaving is the most dangerous moment. Show up for it.
  • I'll pass this on to another bloke.

    This only works if it moves.
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If it's you, or someone you love

1800RESPECT
National sexual assault, domestic and family violence line. 24/7.
MensLine Australia
Support for men, including those worried about their own behaviour. 24/7.
Lifeline
Crisis support and suicide prevention. 24/7.
Kids Helpline
For anyone 5 to 25. 24/7.